Tujuan intan tulis entry kali ni hanya sebab nak berkongsi pengalaman semata-mata memandangkan ketika intan pregnant, intan banyak baca dari blog akak-akak yang dah mengalaminya. So i think this post might help someone/somebody :)
Jadi intan mohon sesiapa sahaja yang membacanya hendaklah membaca dengan hati yang terbuka dan ini hanya berkaitan SAINS & ISLAM semata-mata. Jangan nak otak kuning pulak haha. Memandangkan mybe most of the viewers bukan orang yg kenal intan in real life so tkde la segan sangat. muehehe.
Baiklah kita mulakan sekarang. Intan nak share macam mana intan boleh suspect diri sendiri pregnant & mcm mana i knew that i was going through a treatened miscarriage :(
Setiap wanita mempunyai menstrual cycle sendiri dimana ada yang Regular & ada juga yang tak regular. Setakat apa yang doctor cakap, im in the second group. Irregular. Maknanya if normal woman will have 28-35 cycle days (cd) yg akan tetap or plus minus 1 day everymonth, im not like that. Sometimes it was shorter & doctor said it can be longer than 2 months. huhuhu. Means that people like me a little bit hard to get pregnant since we can't really fixed the ovulation day (hari subur). So me just like if ada rezeki Allah bagi, ada lah. If takde, kita doa lagi.
I got married on 22/11/2014. The next cycle started on 15 December 2014. Since i am one of woman who has irregular menses. intan pun taktahu la bila kalanya hari subur right ? Every woman has their own way/ symptom that let them know that they're going to have their period. And so do I. If wanita tu mengalami breast tenderness bila nak period, usually 3-7 days bfore the exact day the period started. But then, I started experienced it on 8/1/15 usually after 3 days i will period, but then until 18/1/2015 still nothing. Oh ya, there is one day around 3/1/15 i noticed a blot spot on panties. I was suprised cause I dont know what it means hahahahha.
And so I goooooogle right away and found an article of (tanda-tanda awal kehamilan). So intan buat derk je dlu and decide if period delay then i will do the upt (urine pregnancy test). On 18/1/15 evening, i did it secretly haha. At first i saw there is only 1 line. Em which means negative. Kena ada 2 line baru maknanya pregnant. I was a bit frust hahaha takde la frust mana pun, i just got married kan. so chill la. Actually intan taktahu yg kena tunggu few minutes (1-5min) utk result hahaha. Keluar je toilet dgn muka hampa, whatsapp kakak bagitahu -ve. Then dia suruh amik gambar then send kat dia. Fortunately, saja guna flash supaya clear sikit. then, tadaaaaa! It's a faint line. Hehehehe the second line tu tak terang. Means samar-samar. Intan tak mengharap sgt tapi kakak kata tu positive. Dia suruh jaga diri then after a week buat lagi test . Sebab that time buat petang, supposed nak buat urien test the best subuh lepas bangun tidur. muehehe
Then22/1/15 i did the test again using the most popular upt, CLEAR BLUE digital, Then tadaaa. Appear kat screen dia, pregnant 2-3. Means around 3-4 weeks pregnant. So terus pergi klinik utk dr sahkan. And dr sahkan im pregnant 4 weeks+ So time ni hanya family yg tahu. sebab memang taknak heboh selagi tak kuat.
Tengah happy,actually memang jaga makan & takde buat benda berat-berat but dah Allah kata belum masanya kan. 27/1/15 bleeding. 2 hari pertama hnya blod spot yg sgt cerah. Mcm light pink. That time pergi klinik UMRA utk buat TVS (trans vaginal scan) sebab i have retroverted (rahim terbalik) so agak susah nak nampak if scan kt perut. Dr tk sure yg dia nmpak tu betul kantung atau tak. On 29/1/15 decide utk pergi hospital putrajaya (sebab that time tidur rumah abg kt puchong). MA scan dia kata kantung okay clear etc, but dia still hantar ke labour room utk cek detail sbb dah bleeding fresh blood harini. doctor cek tkde tanda-tanda mcm nak bersalin (sbb if nk gugur servix kita open). Then dr suggest utk ambil darah utk cek BHCG (hormon pregnant). Sebab kandungan yg okay & tak bermasalah, amount BHC tu akan double dlm 48 jam.okay done ambil darah.
However, keesokan harinya waktu lepas maghrib perut rasa senak sangat. Rasa mcm mengah nak bernafas sebab perut sakit. Kat bahagian rahim tu cramp sgt mcm senggugut tapi tahap *%*^$ ahaa. Waktu tu nak pergi melawat arwah ayah mertua kat sunway hospital. Husb dah tanya okay ke tak. I thought okay la kot nanti2. Sepanjang dalam kereta intan menahan sakit. Smpai tercungap2. Bila smpai je kat hospital, turun kereta intan rasa there is something coming out. Fortunately that time dekat dengan toilet. Then i went to toilet, sebab dah bleeding, memang pakai pad sentiasa. So my precious anak fall on it. Ya Allah that time hanya Allah tahu betapa sedihnya. Lepas je keluar tu rasa sakit hilang sekejap.
But then, on the way ke hospital putrajaya, i started to feel the pain much much much worse than bfore gugur tu. tktahu kenapa. kakak suruh cepat sbb takut turun darah kang pengsan pulak. Admit dkt hospital fr 4 days sbb dctor suspect ectopic pregnancy (luar rahim) sebab intan rasa sakit sangat lepas gugur tu. Dr takut sebenarnya ada janin kat fallopian tube and yg keluar tu mungkin tisu ke apa. But i am my precious's mother, i know yg dia dh takde/ cuma yelah doctor mesti nak sahkan betul2 before can discharged. Alhamdulillah after 4 days doctor bagi balik and me kena berpantang & berurut. sebab mak kata aku kena rengat. sakit2 lepas bersalin. rengat ni kalau teruk boleh meroyan. Alhamdulillah lepas 3 kali urut i feel alive again.
Alhamdulillah, Allah bagi peluang rasa ada keajaiban yg hidup dalam perut ni. Mungkin sekiranya anak tu lahir, intan & suami mungkin belum boleh jadi ummi & abi yang baik. Memandangkan intan pun student, that time dok kolej tau. bukan dengan husb ehhee. mybe Allah nak bagi ktorg masa utk sesuaikan diri dengan keadaan. Apapun kami redha. My instict, my baby is a boy. hheheh. sebab pemalas gila time pregnant. tidurrrrrr je. haha.
So untuk sesiapa yang mengalami keguguran, make sure kita redha, pantang betul-betul bagi badan sihat. Hope dari perkongsian ni, dapat bantu sedikit sebanyak masalah wanita :) Anything nak tanya, boleh pm kt fb. Intan azrina mohd azman :)
Wallahua'lam.
moga bermanfaat
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